has anyone else got a secret life? it's difficult cos i love my woman and i love my kid, but i'm bisexual and love sex with men too. people say there's no such thing as being bi, they say you must be gay but i'm truely not. give me women any day.....it's just that sometimes i get the urge and i just can't stop myself....sometimes it's once a year....sometimes it's once a week...depends where i am, what i'm doing....i can't explain it. i visit men's toilets and most of the time there's action to be had, no matter where you are you can always find some fun....i've had some crazy times and maybe that's part of the thrill, the fact that you may get caught.....sometimes i lie in bed thinking how stupid i'm being...if my woman ever found out then that would be it. game over. no relationship, no kid. i love my son dearly and to lose him would kill me, really.....but yet i still do it...i'm sick...really.............help me someone..